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Patience: A Key Trait of Successful People

May 29th, 2017

A fool lets fly with all his temper, but a wise person keeps it back…Do you see someone who is hasty in his words? There is more hope for a fool than for him. (Proverbs 29:11,20 NET)

The Book of Proverbs teaches us godly principles of life. To read from it daily instructs us in the manners and key traits of successful people. God does want His children to succeed in life and we do this on at least three levels: inwardly with ourselves, outwardly with our careers and relationships with others, and upwardly in our thoughts and attitudes toward God.

The trait of patience is a key trait of successful people. They must learn to wait. They must learn the value of delayed gratification. They will express this value in any number of ways: the willingness to undergo years of schooling and training for their career; the willingness to do tedious and careful work under control when everyone is insisting that they hurry it up, the willingness to lay foundations in their heart and in their work even though it takes extra time; the willingness to bear with the failings of those around them, even their own failings, in order to teach and train and prepare someone (or themselves) for future success.

Patience is an expression of faith, especially faith in God. It is the faith that somethings are more important than immediately having something inferior or showing progress to others. So it values such matters as love, inner peace, Integrity, honesty, compassion, maturity, and righteousness. The key characteristic of Christians who are growing in this trait is regular time with the Lord in prayer and devotion. They make (1) the upward growth with God their first priority, (2) their inner growth in themselves the second, and (3) then and only then they place the outer growth of relationships and career as their priority. Mature people are honest people and they seek to be somebody inwardly before they are propelled into positions of leadership.

There are times and situations, of course, that demand immediate actions, that call us to respond quickly, and people of action get things done. Calm reflection in the face of a burning house is ludicrous. But successful people are able to distinguish between emergencies and normality. The fool always sees the house on fire, always lives in a panic, always gives into the demands, constantly lives in the fear of failure. Think of the fireman, or the emergency medical personnel, who are the most help in an emergency and have gone through years of training and constant preparation just for such events.

The one who lives in constant fear, in a constant state of impatience, has failed first within his own soul in the neglect of inner soul growth, and he has failed more significantly in the neglect of growth in his relationship with God. If on the other hand we can make these two the matters of first importance - specially our relationship with God - if we can succeed first upwardly, then inwardly, then we will be prepared to succeed outwardly with others and in our careers.

A close friend asked me to pray for him not long ago because he had received an invitation to serve as worship leader of a great church with a famous pastor. (I will omit their names.) At first he was honored and excited for this opportunity - who wouldn’t be? Then I asked him about his inner motivations and about what was God saying to his heart. The famous pastor, like all men, may die, or, even worse, may have a moral failing. Is the calling to the large church more than a mere desire to be in a position of fame and notoriety? He may go and see that his life, his family, and ministry have been thrown into a situation similar to Job. If God is calling him, he should go, but if it is impatience, a desire for personal glory, or any selfish or fearful motivation, he should decline.

All good things that are worth doing in life seem to be hard things to do, and they demand mature and patient people to accomplish them. The difficult circumstances and the hard jobs need people who do not panic in the midst of storms, who calmly keep their eyes on Jesus and trust in His acceptance of them, that lust not after fame or fortune or power, who stand secure in the love of God and are willing to obey Him even if all others oppose them.  No one ever truly succeeds in life until he has first succeeded with God through faith in Christ, and secondly has put his own heart before the Lord to grow and mature. Then and only then are we ready to tackle the difficult and challenging. Successful people do things not so that they will look good, but because they are important things and must get done.

Impatience is a sign of immaturity. Patience is a sign of maturity. As Rudyard Kipling wrote:

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,

And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

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The Principle of the Christ-life

February 20th, 2017

For to me to live is Christ, and death is gain… Philippians 1:21

These words of Paul, inspired by the Spirit, have ignited the imaginations of Christians around the world and across the ages. They describe a new spiritual reality that every believer can experience and should experience in his daily life. It is not merely a sentiment or a suggestion but rather the expectation for how we should live each day.

Major Ian Thomas, in his classic book, The Saving Life of Christ, opens his teachings on this principle with these words:

Christ did not die simply that you might be saved from a bad conscience, or even to remove the stain of your past failure, but to “clear the decks” for divine action. You have been told that Jesus Christ shed His blood for your sins in order to reconcile you to God. This is gloriously true. But this vital work is not the most important part in God’s plan of salvation. In Romans 5:10 we read, “For if, when we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to Him through the death of His Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through His life!” It may be hard to believe, but Christ has come to save us from the bondage of our sinful nature by manifesting His own victorious life from within our soul.

The words of Paul quoted above are not merely an emotion, but a spiritual reality. This is the principle of the Christ-life - Christ living in the believer. It is the “Not-I-but-Christ” life described in Galatians 2:20.

We may mistake these words for merely a romantic ideal - like a young man or woman who is “in love” and cannot think of anything other than their beloved - an infatuation with Christ. Though the love of Christ for us touches us more deeply than any mere earthly attachment, this is not merely an infatuation with Christ. It means that Christ has come to live in us. He has given us a new nature, “The new man which was created according to God, in true righteousness and holiness” (Eph. 4:24 NKJV). And He has come to live in us and to simply be Himself in us.

So many Christians have yet to realize this truth in their personal lives that it staggers the imagination. The Church of Jesus Christ has been redeemed by His love, yet we leave blessings on the table and even after salvation we try to live much as we did before - doing the best we can under our own power and strength.

Matthew Henry, the great Puritan scholar, wrote:

It is the undoubted character of every good Christian that to him to live is Christ. The glory of Christ ought to be the end of our life, the grace of Christ the principle of our life, and the word of Christ the rule of it. The Christian life is derived from Christ, and directed to him. He is the principle, rule, and end of it.

Some Bible scholars have suggested that Paul’s comparison was between Christ and death, but this is a misunderstanding. His comparison was between earthly life and heavenly life - both which for the Christian are to be characterized by the reality of Christ.

This to be a reality we accept by faith, and live by having constant communication with Christ. He is the object of our faith, the companion in our journey, and His glory is the goal of our life. Life is to be lived in conversation with Him, accepting that whatever good can be done in our lives must come from Him, and not from us. The  Christ-life is the life where Christ receives all the credit for our progress, where He is the hero of our story.


Lord, thank You that You did not only die for our sins, but You rose from the grave to save us fully - in this life as well as in the next. Let You become the chief reality of our minds, our hearts, and our choices. Amen.

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