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The Role of Pastor

December 31st, 2015

But to each one of us grace was given according to the measure of Christ’s gift. (Ephesians 4:7)

The capacity to minister effectively in the name of Christ comes only from Christ himself. In Ephesians 4:7 (above) and Romans 12:6 God said that the gifts to serve are given by his grace - “having then gifts different according to the grace that is given to us” (Rom. 12:6). Grace is undeserved favor, so no one can earn grace at any level. No one, by his devotion, sincerity, faith, prayer, study, or sacrifices, may earn the grace of Christ. This applies whether it is grace for salvation or grace for service.

Calls to service are all given at the discretion of God. The church as a whole is commanded to desire the greater gifts (1 Cor. 12:31), but the individual believer is not. The Spirit gives as he deems right and appropriate. His giving the greater gifts to some individuals is not because he loves them more than others, but because it is simply his plan for those lives. The gift to pastor, given in grace, is not an expression of love for the pastor but an expression of love for the people.

A pastor must make sure that Christ is first in his life, that all of his life is about the Lord himself and that he reflects the Lord in all that he does. He is not to call attention to himself, rather he is to point people constantly to Christ. He is the vicarious representative of Christ in this world and in churches, families, and friendships. The best he can do is to simply be a channel of God’s love to others, or just be a tool in the Lord’s hands.

Let me share some insights into the pastoral ministry that I have gained over the years.

God desires every Christian and every church to have a pastor: There is no Christian who has ever been saved whom God, in his best will, chose not to have a pastor. Likewise, there is no church that God has brought into existence which God selected not to have a pastor. In each and every situation God has chosen for pastors to be called, equipped, and sent out to serve for the benefit of the Christian and the church.

Ephesians 4:7-16 is the clearest description of the God-ordained role of the pastor. There the word “pastor” is linked to the word “teacher” and it is best understood as a hyphenated word - “pastor-teacher” - describing two aspects of one position. The purpose is two-fold: (a) the equipping of the saints for the work of the ministry, or the enabling of the followers of Christ to fulfill God’s purpose for the church, and (b) the edifying of the body of Christ, or the strengthening and building up of the Christian and the church fellowship.

This identifies very specific things that a pastor is to do. He is to teach and train others. He is to enable them to serve God more effectively. The nature of his teaching is for the strengthening of the soul of the believer, so he is not merely a dispenser of information but a vicarious representative of Christ himself, ministering to the heart, mind, soul, and life of the believer. His concern, also, is not merely for the individual believer, but for the Christian family and the Christian church.

This is why we associate “pastor” with “overseer” and “elder,” just as the scriptures do.* In Acts 20:17-38, we are given the apostle Paul’s farewell speech to the Ephesians elders and there he commanded them to “take heed to yourselves and to all the flock, among which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers, to shepherd the church of God which He purchased with His own blood” (Acts 20:28 NKJV). So an important part of being a pastor is to be concerned about the other pastors and church leaders around us. I have an obligation given by God as a pastor to also look out for my fellow pastors.

Pastors bring God and his Word into intimate situations in life: One of the most amazing things to be about being a pastor is the way we deal with so many intimate and personal situations. A pastor must be sensitive to the reality that his role is not about prying into people’s private lives, it is not done just to satisfy his curiosity, but rather it is to bring God into people’s lives. To be called by God as a pastor means intimacy with God and intimacy with His people.

Consider the many private and deeply personal matters that pastors deal with. Just a brief list would include these events:

  • The moment of salvation, of baptism, of taking the first steps of faith
  • Moment of rededication, confession of sins, and deep surrender to Christ
  • Marriage: husband and wife starting a life together
  • Marriage and family counseling
  • The moments of Christian life - Lord’s Supper, worship, affirmation of God’s grace and forgiveness, counseling through crises.
  • The moments of grace - learning to lead, training others to teach, to win souls, to counsel
  • The moments of worry and anxiety - dealing with personal problems, fears, hurts, intimate and private habits
  • The special moments of family: Christmastime, special blessings, child dedication, reconciliations
  • Moments of celebration: birth, graduations, achievements, anniversaries
  • Moments of fruitfulness: sharing the faith, discipleship, equipping, taking leadership
  • Moments of suffering: sickness, loss, failure, disappointment
  • The moment of death: the end of a life, helping a family experience the comfort of God

Some have separated the role of pastor from teacher and overseer, and reinterpreted it more in the role of soul-counselor only. But I believe this is not what the Bible presents, and I am afraid that we lose something in the process of trying to make it so. The roles of pastor and teacher are inseparably linked to one another, so as to make it impossible to do one very well without also needing to do the other. To teach the Bible or to lead the church without having a heart of compassion for people and the common problems and challenges they face is a distortion of what God intended pastoral leadership to be.

And to counsel and comfort privately without having any capacity for teaching and proclaiming the Word of God, also, distorts the role of pastoral counselor. A pastor is not a psychological therapist. His calling and work goes much higher and deeper than psychology is capable of going. It would not necessarily harm the pastor to have some knowledge of this field, but his basic orientation and the scope of his work is greater than the psychologist. He is concerned first, last, and foremost, with the spiritual relationship of the individual with God. He brings not just an understanding heart into situations in life, but he brings the knowledge of the Word of God and the presence and life of Christ into human circumstances.

In fact, it should be understood that from a pastor’s perspective, there is no such thing as a mere “human circumstance” - one in which God is irrelevant, superfluous, or unhelpful. The central issue of all of life and all of life’s challenges - each of life’s “moments” - is our relationship with God.

A pastor should personify godly hope: The scripture says that the one who prophesies “speaks edification and exhortation and comfort to men” (1 Cor. 14:3). There are some in the world who feel it their calling to merely criticize all that is wrong with the world. Well, there is plenty wrong with this world.

But the heart of a pastor’s message and life direction is to instill the hope of God in all those around him. To be a pastor means to look at the people of God and despite their weaknesses and failures, despite the very things that perhaps even the pastor himself finds annoying, be able to speak a word of hope and love. And not just to the people of God but to the world itself. Paul wrote, “Him we preach, warning every man and teaching every man in all wisdom, that we may present every man perfect in Christ” (Colossians 1:28).

It is an amazing fact, but the apostle Paul in writing to churches always described them in the highest possible terms. For example to the troubled and conflicted church at Corinth, Paul began:

To the church of God which is at Corinth, to those sanctified in Christ Jesus, called to be saints, with all who in every place call on the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, both theirs and ours: Grace and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. (1 Corinthians 1:2-3)

Even in his letter of rebuke to the church at Galatia, he began positively, wishing them “Grace to you and peace from God,” reminding them that Christ came “to deliver us from this present evil age” (Galatians 1:3-4). Even when rebuking was needed - and it was often needed - the apostolic example was to proclaim the positive love and grace of God.

And this was also the example of the prophets in the Old Testament. No matter how negatively their overall message, no matter how greatly they rebuked the people of God, there was always a bright ray of the light of the hope of God. “Though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be white as snow” (Isaiah 1:18). The heart of the Christian message consists of grace, love, life, forgiveness, and hope. If we preach against evil, we have not done our duty until we have also preached the hope and grace of God. If we call people to repent, we also invite them to receive cleansing and a new life in Christ.

My pastoral advice: In light of this short little study, let me recommend that you look for a pastor who loves the Lord, who loves God’s Word, who knows it and can teach it, and who loves God’s people, and not just God’s people but the whole world. You will not progress spiritually the way that God had intended without the help of a godly pastor. Let me encourage you to support your pastor, to pray for him and his family, to encourage him, and to trust him. If a pastor shows that he is unworthy of your trust, go and find one whom you can trust.

None of us pastors are perfect, and everyone of us has “feet of clay.” If you dig around in our lives and our habits, I am sure you can find something in our lives that is less than perfect. But as we let Christ grow us into his image, as we learn more of him, as we allow him to have more and more of our lives and our personalities, we will become more effective for him. As Paul wrote, “I have been crucified with Christ, it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me” (Galatians 2:20a).

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*The key passages in the New Testament on the role of the pastor are: Acts 20:28; Ephesians. 4:7-11; 1 Timothy 3:1-7; 2 Timothy 4:1-5; Titus 1:5-16; 1 Peter 5:1-11. The words “pastor,” “elder,” and “overseer,” or “bishop,” all refer generally to the same position. The word “pastor” is used the least among these in the New Testament, “elder,” and “overseer” are used much more. “Pastor” literally means “shepherd” is more often used in the New Testament to refer to Christ (John 10 and 1 Peter 2:25). Peter called Jesus the “Chief Shepherd” or “Chief Pastor” (1 Peter 5:4), and thereby the human pastor is the undershepherd.

There are several common themes among these passages: the importance of a personal faith relationship with Christ, the knowledge and use of the Word of God, sacrificial service for Christ, teaching with all patience, keeping watch over others, leading with wisdom, walking with the Spirit, having a deep prayer life, warning and rebuking when necessary, and the respect due to the leaders.

The Southern Baptist Convention in its doctrinal statements of 1963 and 2000 - The Baptist Faith and Message - chose to use a cultural understanding of the word “pastor” and substitute it for the more accurate word “overseer.” For example, in 1963 they said that the officers of the church were “pastors and deacons” and used both Philippians 1:1 and 1 Timothy 3 as scriptural references for this statement. However, both of those passages use the word “overseer” or “bishop” and not “pastor.” There was little disagreement among Southern Baptists in the South because there was enough cultural common understanding that everyone fairly well knew what they meant. But outside the South this led to some misunderstanding.

A clear biblical case can be made to say that God intended the overseers of a church to be men - this is based simply on an understanding of 1 Timothy 2:8-3:7. Acts 20:28 passage also teaches that the overseers should be doing the work of pastoring or shepherd the church - so all overseers should be pastors. But does this mean that all pastors are thereby overseers?

A biblical case can be made for a woman holding the title “pastor” (but not “overseer”) since “pastor” is only listed in church leadership in Ephesians 4:11 alongside of “prophets.” And since we know there were many women who were called “prophetesses” - Anna was called a prophetess (Luke 2:36), as was: Miriam (Exod. 15:20-21); Deborah (Judges 4:4); Huldah (2 Kings 22:14); Isaiah’s wife (Isa. 8:3); the daughters of Philip (Acts 21:8-9) - some can argue that there is nothing necessarily unbiblical with calling a woman a pastor.  It only becomes problematic if “pastor” is understood to also mean “the overseer,” and therein lies the problem. Some places on earth it does, and some places on earth it does not.

Some have tried to make this case by connecting the words “pastor-teacher” in Ephesians 4:11 to the statement in 1 Timothy 2:12, “I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man.” Yet in the context, especially in light of the many women in scriptural history who did teach and instruct on some level, the heart of Paul’s concern appeared not to be teaching alone but teaching with authority to lead the church. Dr Thomas Lea in his commentary on 1 Timothy understood 1 Timothy 2:12 as only forbidding a woman from taking the title of the main pastor or the overseer of a church.

However, if the title “pastor” is culturally understood to include concepts of “pastoral authority,” which it does in many cultures around the world, then to allow a woman to have the title might lead to division in the fellowship. Whenever people speak and teach they should do so not only to be understood, but also so as to not be misunderstood. Yet we should not automatically misjudge the national Christian movements around the world which give the title “pastor” to women.  I would strongly urge caution and patient understanding here for the sake of Christian unity.

For me and the international church I am privileged to pastor today, I would not recommend we call any woman in the church “pastor,” simply because it will surely be misunderstood by many to also mean “overseer,” whether we intend it to or not. The Bible says, “Therefore let us pursue the things which made for peace and the things by which one may edify another” (Rom. 14:19). We should not use our Christian liberty to cause division.

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Dealing with Rejection

December 30th, 2015

What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?

Romans 8:31

Rejection is a common experience in this world. Virtually all people experience it at some level and in one way or another. Rejection is love and acceptance withdrawn from us. Some rejections are particularly hurtful because they come from sources that we have thought of as affirming our identity. If a stranger rejects us it hurts much less than if someone we had trusted and considered ourselves close to does so.

In this sense we can feel destabilized and uncertain of who we are if the rejection happens from home, or even anywhere close to it. If a parent has abandoned us, or a child has rejected us, it is particularly painful because these are primary relationships in life that help to form our own understanding of ourselves.

The comfort of our acceptance in Christ: We have wonderful promises to us in God’s word that he never rejects those who trust in Christ.

There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. (Romans 8:1)

For my father and my mother have forsaken me, but the Lord will take me in. (Psalm 27:10)

For the Lord will not cast off forever, but, though he cause grief, he will have compassion according to the abundance of his steadfast love; for he does not willingly afflict or grieve the children of men. (Lamentations 3:31-33)

All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never cast out. (John 6:37)

These promises strengthen our hearts to know that we have a home with God that no one on earth can ever cast us out of. Through Christ we are new creatures with a new Father and a new life and a new identity. These are all sources of assurance and personal security the strengthens us.

As Christians, how are we to handle rejection?

The world’s way: Typical advice you receive from the world is to treat others the way they treat you. If people reject you, then you just reject them. The typical popular song on the radio about a broken heart will suggest some reaction like this. If people yell at you, then just yell back at them. If your boyfriend breaks your heart, then just try and break his.

If the one who “reject us” is actually merely abusing us, and their rejection is an effort to get us to perform according to their wishes, we have a right to protect ourselves. That type of rejection, or abuse, we need not put up with. But even then, we should not reject them in a spirit of hatred or anger. We simply do not need to allow them to mistreat us, just as Christ and Paul both confronted the unjust ways they were treated. When slapped by a guard Christ said, “If I have spoken evil, bear witness of the evil; but if well, why do you strike me?” (John 18:23) Paul answered similarly to being slapped before the Sanhedrin (Acts 23:2-5).

The Christian way: The biblical way to handle rejection includes at least these five aspects:

Find your chief identity in Christ: If the rejection hurts us because it is close to home, then make certain that the chief identity you hold in your heart is your relationship with God in Christ. It will cause us pain if someone close to us rejects us, but we must keep before us always that our relationships on earth, even the most dear, are temporary compared to the eternal relationship with our heavenly Father.

Determine not to retaliate: “Repay no one evil for evil” (Rom. 12:17). “…not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling” (1 Peter 3:9). Instead keep in mind that perhaps there has been a misunderstanding. Perhaps something you have said or done had offended them, or perhaps you were misunderstood and their rejection was merely as a defense reaction to their own fear that you had rejected them. Take all of these things into account and perhaps the relationship can be saved. Those who reject others often have some personal hurt in their own lives that has influenced them to do this. They have often been rejected, judged, hurt, or betrayed, and their rejection may have come from this. Repair it if possible.

The problem with retaliation, with responding with anger, is that the issue never really leaves our own minds. Many people have given their entire lives over to revenge, and it has become a curse to them, causing them to constantly remember the hurt and pain.

Leave all thoughts of vengeance in the hands of the Lord. Christ commanded his disciples as they went out on mission:

When you go into a household, greet it. If the household is worthy, let your peace come upon it. But if it is not worthy let your peace return to you. And whoever will not receive you not hear your words, when you depart from that house or city, shake off the dust from your feet. (Matthew 10:12-14, NKJV)

Shaking the dust off is not a sign of anger, rather it simply means to move on and don’t worry about it anymore.

Pray for the one who rejects you: The Lord commanded us, “Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you” (Matt. 5:44). Rather than finding ways to attack them, find reasons to bless and hope for the best in their lives. Healing from the hurt and pain of the rejection will come to us through our praying for the person.

Consider that you may have acted the same way toward others: When we have been hurt by people, it is important that we consider that we may have also hurt others ourselves. We are quick to complain when we have been victims of injustice, but we should also think about those injustices we have dealt out to others. Confess to God what offenses he places on your heart to recall, and let him guide you whether or not you should ask other for forgiveness and seek to reconcile with them.

Let God open up other relationships with like-minded believers: You do not need to remain in abusive relationships, or pine away all alone. Pray and look at how God will answer your prayer. Seek like minded Christian fellowship. Find good Christians friends. Christ commanded his disciples to look for the “son of peace” in their ministries (Luke 10:6-7). This is a principle we find acted out in the missionary ministries of Peter and Paul in Acts. They went where they were welcomed and enjoyed close fellowship.

Above all consider that Christ also was rejected by men: Christ was rejected not just by strangers but by his own people and his own family. He was the sacrificial Lamb of God, yet the religious leaders of the Jews rejected him.

He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him. Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God… (John 1:10-12)

The Lord was tried in all ways like we are. He was the “man of sorrows, acquainted with grief” who was “despised and rejected of men” (Isaiah 53:3). We can always cry out to him in our moments of rejection and loneliness and find not only acceptance but also deep sympathy.

Lord, thank you for your compassion for us and acceptance of us by grace through faith. You have gone before us, not only in our way to heaven but in our challenges and trials on earth. You know what it is like to be rejected and despised. You were esteemed not by humanity. Let us forgive and seek our own forgiveness from those who have wronged. Give us the grace of empathy for those who have rejected us, and the kindness to pray for them anyway. Lead us in wise paths, away from temptation and evil, and show us those who will love and accept us as family and friends. Amen.

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